toward.love: a dating event for ENM, seeking a person to build a life with

the vibe

This edition of Toward Love is an intimate night for people practicing ethical non-monogamy looking for a person to build a life with. If that's the love you're moving toward, you belong here. We'll start by getting you out of your day and back into your own body, because your body is the instrument that tells you who's actually a match for you. You can't pick up that signal in someone else until you can feel yourself first. From there, the three levels of conversation from authentic relating move you past the small talk. What looks good on paper won't tell you who you'll want to keep waking up next to for years to come. Your body will. We're here to help you feel it. Across the evening we'll use breath, slow attention, polarity, and authentic relating to move you out of performing and into noticing. By the end you'll know the thing your belly tends to know faster than your mind: whether you want to deepen with this person. There will be non-erotic, consent-based touch. We'll create a field where your yes and your no both arrive cleanly, and we'll ask you to trust them. You can sit out any exercise, skip the touch entirely, and still be fully part of the room. Shape of the night (3 hours): 6pm: doors open. Come in, settle, and start meeting people with the help of our connection cards. 6:30: doors close. This is a fully closed container. We won't let anyone in after 6:30, so the field stays protected for everyone who chose to be here on time. 6:30 - 8:30: the structured…